This post is about who you are surrounding yourself with in your day to day life. If you are someone who is trying to get better at something, achieve something, be more positive, and have more fun. Then there is a possiblity that you need to look at who you surround yourself with, and ask yourself do they hold me back, or do they help me move forward.
I myself am lucky to have great friends, but i know their are people who have friends who are incredibly negative. If you tell them about your goals they will instantly right them off, normally this is someone who is too afraid themselves to go after what they want, so they will try to put you down, and try to kill your positive buzz.
These people can’t really be changed very easily so don’t even try. If you can, try to spend a lot less time with these people, or none at all for that matter as they will drain you mentally, and try to hold you back.
The best thing to do is surround yourself with positive like minded people. This shouldn’t be very difficult as it is very easy to make friends with like minded people, they will always be coming into your life if you are taking action towards your goals.
You need to surround yourself with positive people, people who help move you forward with their support, people who are trying to achieve something themselves, or already have done.
Try to meet people that are better than you at what you do, as they can teach you a lot and inspire you to get better and better, forget your ego and seek out people you know are better. Ask them for some advice, or just connect and train with them if you do a sport. Trust me you will learn loads, and they will help push you forward, and make you realise what really can be achieved.
This is a short post, but not much needs to be said on the subject. Get rid of the negative people in your life, they will hold you back. Surround yourself with positive, like minded people. And seek out people that are better than you and see what you can learn from them. They might even learn something from you.
Create a great circle of who’s, they will help move you forward! And you can help them too!